Correcting my name and the sex designation on the birth registry was one of the most critical and vital parts of transition for me.
Coming out to family and friends was one thing, coming out at work was an entirely different experience.
What do your previous relationships, careers, achievements, successes and failures mean after you change your name and start living as the gender you really are?
Emotional labour is the mental effort required to do something or be something. To be trans, to be openly trans is a lot of emotional work sometimes.
About four months ago I started Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), the effects are starting to assert themselves.
Recently I published the intimate details of a sexual assault I experienced as part of a broader healing process.
From about the time I could walk until about one year ago I used the men’s washroom in public spaces and that meant urinals. That’s all changed for me and it’s been great.